Sometimes we fall in love with what we hear instead of paying close attention to details, the true character of the man whom you are involved with. You know that old saying "you can bring and horse to water, but you can't make it drink".... Same saying applies to relationships, if your man is sleeping with another woman and you find out about what are you going to do? You always have a choice, and your choice should be first "love self".. You should be more concerned about your health and peace of mind rather than who he is sleeping with, You should be more concerned with the integrity and loyalty that was compromised rather than blaming yourself for not being woman enough......
You can't make a man love you or respect you, you do that for yourself and if you find yourself in a situation where your value and your self worth is challenged than your choice should be "YOU FIRST".... Love yourself enough to honor you, to uphold what you know is true about who you are and build on it and when someone who comes along in your life who doesnt compliment who you are then you have to have the courage and strength to let it go!!! When your man is sleeping around, that puts your health at risk and your esteem is challenged and question, but what another man/or woman does to dishonor your commitment, is about their selfishness and it really doesnt have anything to do with you... So dont blame yourself for someone else's foolishness.... Let it go!!