You must love yourself enough to want whats best for you. You should be able to realize by now if its too good to be true than maybe your right. Listen to instinct, that voice that says "warning". Dont be afraid to be right, it might save your life from destruction.
If it walks like a duck, or even quacks like a duck than listen and believe. Dont try to make someone be something they are not and that is honest. Love is an action, and love feels good not betrayed, belittled or rejected love is...as love does and one thing love is not....... is uncertain......
Tyra