There is no question in my mind with what I see today in the streets, in the clubs and even on the most popular dating sites that there is a change in the way we see relationships today. My question is “Have we given up on holding out for “TRUE LOVE”????
It seems like women don’t care about their bodies and men don’t value womanhood and we collectively are not loving each other or even respecting each other anymore.. All I can say is where is the love?.. Even on the radio I hear all kinds of songs that make women out to be sexual objects of instant gratification and that just makes me want to buy a pet instead of hoping to find or wait for the “Love of my life”.. I refuse to settle. I believe that women are beautiful and were made for man, we hold the power to change life, but we are so desperate for the love of a man instead of the love of God that we are blinded by fear. Some of us appear to be so desperate for a man that we don’t hold them accountable for their actions, we don’t hold them responsible to us for anything, so why would a man feel obligated to commit if he doesn’t have to ????
I don’t know about you, but I can’t be a part of this problem. I can’t put down my heart and allow it to be used, abused, taken for granted and rejected over and over again adding to issues already that we will spend a life time managing. Women must come back to a place of “Self preservation” when we realize that “WE are WORTH being PURSUED” things will change for us, but until then if you settle, you deserve what you get until you feel you deserve better!
God Bless!
Love you first!
Let go so you can grow!
T. Jackson